Perfect Play-Spaces for All Ages in Paris: A Psychologist’s Take

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Perfect Play-Spaces for All Ages in Paris: A Psychologist’s Take
There is no doubt that children thrive when they develop their imagination through play. Pretend-play helps a young child make sense of the world and how to live in it; it helps adults maintain balance and creativity. Because play is a hard-wired capacity of people (as well as many animals), it needs only some internal comfort and external acceptance to flourish. That’s where Paris comes in. Paris is the perfect place to nourish the imagination of children and adults alike because it sanctions and supports whimsy, applauds non-goal directed behavior, offers countless examples of transformation, explicitly underscores the value of pleasure, supports diversity in perspective, encourages creativity in any facet of life, and, more specifically, has countless props and places that lend themselves to developing and exercising the imagination (for example, see Les Folies in Parc de la Villette and Les Cabanes at the Cité des Sciences.) Let’s look at the ambient stimuli first, those features of Paris that are available to anyone who visits the city. Happily, they occur across the arrondissements. Whimsy, unique combinations. Paris is loaded with surprises. Turn a corner and a shimmering pyramid announces the entrance to the 16th century palace containing the late 12th century castle that, as the current Musée du Louvre, holds more than 380,000 pieces of art from around the world. Descend to the lower level of the Sully Wing and discover the Medieval Louvre, the walls of the original castle, revealed during excavation in the 1980s to create underground parking. Today they are preserved. Taste that unfamiliar flavor of ice cream or chocolat or macaron and find a new temptation, perhaps a new texture. In January, bite into a galette des rois and five the fève hidden inside the unique pastry; who doesn’t enjoy an unexpected prize? A commitment to non-goal directed behavior. Parisians adore the aimless wandering that supports discovery and have a word to describe it that does not translate – to flâner, as a verb; le flâneur or la flâneuse, as a noun. One sunny day last March, a different example, we sat for three hours in a small neighborhood park, watching the children explore the equipment: sliding, bouncing, climbing, spinning, swinging, jumping, rocking, chasing, hiding. Moms and caregivers watched from the sidelines, no interference except by one Mamie who was supervising a tiny grandchild. The children were free to investigate, to master, to determine when they were ready to move to another activity. Their own internal goals guided them, superseding those from external monitors of behavior such as clocks, standards, demands and expectations of others. Transformation. Parisians and visitors alike cannot miss exposure to transformations, large and small, and the delight they bring. Bigger ones, such as the architectural marvels of the Musée d’Orsay, a train station made into an art museum; le Centquatre, a funeral home transformed into a space for experimental performance artists of all ages; Atelier des Lumières, a foundry made into a showplace for digital displays – itself a transformation of visual art into new multi-modal experiences, all make grand statements. Transformations also abound in smaller less permanent forms – pastries decorated for seasonal commentary, outfits repurposing vintage pieces into modern ones, the Place de la République hosting a center for constructive and expressive imaginative play for children of all ages, mimes in costumes from kings or queens to clowns popping up periodically all about the city. Mirrors in the Jardin d’Acclimatation offer alternative reflections. Auto showrooms on the Champs Elysées bring visions of future transportation. Pleasure. For me, the hallmark of Parisian experience may be “le Plaisir”. Pleasures for all the senses, for the moving body, for the mind, for the soul, pervade the city. Signs encourage “le Plaisir de lire”, “le Plaisir de manger”, “le Plaisir d’amour”. Children learn that both gustatory and social pleasures are essential parts of mealtimes. As soon as a child can read, the importance of pleasure as a part of life is literally spelled out in signs and on storefronts across the city. By sanctioning the experience of pleasure, the experience of playfulness is supported. For good measure, a circus or theatrical performance or other stage amusement is always available as entertainment. Diversity of perspectives. A walk through the streets of Paris offers a panorama of perspectives. From the enormous street art on the sides of buildings in the 13th to the small and whimsical pieces tucked alongside a doorway or over a window, Paris offers street art in a range of styles and locations. Climb l’Arc de Triomphe; the Eiffel Tower; the staircase to the roof at Galeries Lafayette, Maison de la Mode; or the steps to Sacré Coeur and note the many ways Paris seems to change with heightened perspective. Periodically revisit Place de l’Alma and note the color of the domes atop the Russian Cathedral; it may be anything from gunmetal grey to copper to a pink-tinged brass, depending on the season, time of day and weather. Recently, while…
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Lead photo credit : Street art in Paris. Photo: David Griff

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Roni Beth Tower, author of the award-winning memoir "Miracle at Midlife: A Transatlantic Romance", is a retired clinical, research and academic psychologist and a dedicated Francophile.

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  • Roni Beth Tower
    2019-07-01 07:25:40
    Roni Beth Tower
    Thank you, Si-e. The delight that is available to us when we open our senses without expectations of what we may find remains vast. So important to be able to curate our own experiences. Thank you for writing.

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  • Si-e
    2019-06-12 08:42:52
    Si-e
    WONDERfully Generous gift “article” , ! Thank You ! . . . by now, in this the 21st century , all should know and be free to experience , HEARTS First ! our truth within of pure even gentle JOY ! DELIGHT ! Open to Whimsy , PEACE !!! There is profound wisdom in inner innocence

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  • Roni Beth Tower
    2019-06-07 06:18:35
    Roni Beth Tower
    Thank you, Michael James! For me, the power of Paris does indeed lie in the city's ability to embrace it all and to do so with beauty, grace, and balance. As you suggest, perhaps it was my early trips at 16 and then the summer I was 19 that have always allowed me to prefer living in Paris "touring" it!

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  • Michael James
    2019-06-07 01:39:34
    Michael James
    I think you've got it. In a word, it's French sensuality expressed so richly and extravagantly everywhere you go in Paris. I think we Angloshere types at first tend to look askance and sceptically at this aspect of Frenchness, and perhaps especially Paris where it seems in overload. It takes a while (a few years really*) for one's perspective to adjust from thinking it is all just a bit frivolous to realising that there is no reason why it cannot exist alongside things intellectual. Indeed the two are just different sides to the same thing --the insatiably curious and sensate human mind. Also, it does have such a big effect when walking around the city, more than most people realise. When I spend a whole day walking the streets, along with using the Metro/Subway/Underground, I end up exhausted in New York and London, but not in Paris. It is probably the same factor(s) that makes Paris a safe and easy walking city, for kids and adults alike. *A few caveats: not so much for those who have an early connection, such as relatives or who vacation there when young. When I lived in Paris I kept meeting Americans who had attended the NYC or LA Lycée Francais, who would dispute my claim. Most of us aren't so lucky and have to take a longer journey.

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